Chad Dating

How to not Chad You are at a bar, and are dressed with vivid colors and bling bling, peacocking about with too much gel in your hair. You are scanning the room like a terminator, seeking the Sarah Connor of your evening so you may assassinate her with your penis. Regardless of your friends having … Continue reading Chad Dating

Using Affirmations and Getting What You Want

Affirmations are somewhat controversial things, because their intent is built around the prospect of positive thinking and self empowerment, but they're also plagued with terrible philosophies and ideas that use them in ineffective ways that lead to wishful thinking. It's always important to remember that just because you say to yourself "I can do this", … Continue reading Using Affirmations and Getting What You Want

Ideas Are Worthless Without Results

Readers of my blog and newcomers (welcome!) have likely encountered many people who have espoused extraordinary ideas and fantastical, idealistic claims. They exaggerate, use hyperbolic language, talk a big game and in general, tend to "appear" to have a lot of self-confidence and self-reassurance. Now this is lovely..assuming it's real, but what's important to keep … Continue reading Ideas Are Worthless Without Results

Abandonment and Rejection – Insidious Self-Sabotage

It's been a little while since my last post! I've been very busy doing other things, such as going on my one year anniversary trip with my partner and also thinking about what I'd like to do during my long summer vacation. Part of the things that I want to do more of is write, … Continue reading Abandonment and Rejection – Insidious Self-Sabotage

On Love: Conditional by Default

I answer a lot of questions on Quora, a website where people can ask questions and receive answers from all kinds of people; whether it be from academics, blue collar workers or very scary Objectivist's such as myself. It's an enjoyable activity of mine, and I usually focus on the topics that are of biggest … Continue reading On Love: Conditional by Default